I hear that once you put a title on something that it changes your outlook on it?
I guess i can see where this can be somewhat true.
I guess if i met a stranger and we sat down and had a pretty in-depth conversation that just blew me away but the day was getting late and I wanted to finish at a later time. But he said that his time was limited that we couldn't meet up all the time. And when i asked why, he then he told me in the end he was an Ex-Convict. Would my thoughts about this person change? To be honest it probably will. Cause the title of a convict holds so much in my mind.
I see a title as me getting rule of thumb to what the situation or thing might be. I like to know what i see. Meaning if i see something that is red, soft but firm and round. I would like to think that it is a tomato but it also could be an apple. Cause with these titles i expect certain things. I expect one to be crunchy and the other i expect to be soft and mushy.
Title of friends, talking, dating, boyfriend/girlfriend, relationship, engaged, married. Yes these are different roles that come with talking to someone that you wish too share a greater passion for.
So why not have a title? Things are going to be complicated either way it goes. He/she content thinking why don't they want to even have a title with them. Cause things don't have to be complicated. And if they do become complicated thats fine. Why not take that risk? Why not just dive in and experience love at its raw its moments? yes you should jump with cation but somethings you just have too jump too.
all i say is take risks and count your winnings